Maybe I will make this a tradition, to do Sundry Mourning’s yearly survey. I did one last year. Well, here.
1. What did you do in 2008 that you’d never done before?
Graduate from college!
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I don’t recall making any, so in that case, I didn’t do anything wrong by not keeping them. My new resolution will be to write more, maybe start a new blog for my family, to detail the beginning of a new phase in my life in California.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
No, but my friend Lala is due very soon.
4. Did anyone close to you die?
Yes, a great Uncle. He was a very kind man.
5. What countries did you visit?
Just this one, but spent an atypically higher amount of time in transit, on a plane. I suppose this will become a new norm.
6. What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?
I don’t feel as though I’m lacking anything. I recognize that I am lucky. Perhaps, the willpower to quit biting my nails!
7. What dates from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
No specific dates, the same birthdays and anniversaries of the same people I will always love.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Graduating. Finishing school. It’s been a wild ride, and now its finished. (For a time, I suppose. Yeah, advanced education!)
9. What was your biggest failure?
.02 points shy of “Cum Laude.” Damn business stats.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
I got sick once, right after my brother got involved in some scary shit at home. He stressed me out.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
Hm. I was given a new computer as a gift, its wonderful! Maybe the case for it. Haha. I don’t know. Should I be worried that my memory seems shorter than a goldfishes?
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
All of ours. It was a growing year. My mom, staying strong throughout the early months of the year and the bullshit that swirled during my brothers last months of junior high. Leo’s, he roughed it through an incredibly hard semester and came out with beautiful grades, a beautiful job, and beautiful me. My dad, who doesn’t say much but dutifully chauffeurs us to and fro, including from Ithaca with a car stuffed full of junk.
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
Sarah Palin? Haha.
14. Where did most of your money go?
Food, as usual.
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
The prospect of getting a job, and a cool one at that.
16. What song will always remind you of 2008?
Hm. Good question. Lil Wayne, that “Millionaire” one? Thats definitely summer 2008. Anything by Santogold or Justice for fall 2008.
17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder?
Happier!
b) thinner or fatter?
About the same?
c) richer or poorer?
Actually the same, but on paper, should be getting “richer” shortly.
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Wrote. Educated myself about the world. Hung out with girlfriends. Tried harder to stay close to friends.
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Worry about the future. Cry.
20. How did you spend Christmas?
Went and saw a double feature at the movies with my brother, “Yes Man” and “The Spirit,” followed by paninis at Piu Bello. It was a lovely day.
21. Did you fall in love in 2008?
I continued to be in love in 2008.
22. What was your favorite TV program?
How I met your Mother.
23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
I don’t think so. Maybe “apathetic towards” is more appropriate.
24. What was the best book you read?
I started reading “The Unbearable Lightness of Being” and was loving it, but since I haven’t finished, I don’t know yet if it was the best.
25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Leo usually does the discovering, and passes on the wealth to me. I loved The Ting Tings this year, The Faint, Justice, and Santogold.
26. What did you want and get?
A job!
27. What did you want and not get?
A different job.
28. What was your favorite film of this year?
Hm. Lars and the real girl.
29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I was 21, and I went to a beauty bar with my girlfriends, met some c-list actors, drank too much, watched everything come back up. It was an excellent rite of passage.
30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Less stress?
31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008?
Flats! Flats! More flats!
32. What kept you sane?
Leo, most certainly.
33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Meh.
34. What political issue stirred you the most?
The presidential election was pretty cool.
35. Who did you miss?
My family when they’re not around, Leo when he’s away. I love but few.
36. Who was the best new person you met?
Bridget!
37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008.
Not to be afraid, that if you work hard enough, you can achieve what you desire.
38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
“when i saw the future – the geeks were right”